Sunday, November 30, 2008

Mission Farewell


Lawrence Parry!!!!


Alan we getting fancy with the camera.


Judson puts in his papers after Christmas! He turns 19 in March! Totally sweet!



With the Bryan Flake. Well, some of them anyway.


Ammon and Taylor. So cute. They're almost the same age!


Cute kids.


Parrys


Could you ever want anything more than Alan Parry? Could anyone else make you truly happy? He said he's going to try and call me on my birthday. Crazy kid.


With my favorite niece.


Scary


"WOW", Matt!


Cute baby.


Natalie actually took this picture. It's not half bad!


With some of my friends.


Awesome, Jens!


My nephews and me listening to Rusty play "Popcorn popping on the apricot tree"


Haley's future husband.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

So I am just getting ready for my mission and such lately. I guess I could bore you with all of the details - you know, like how much my shoes cost (a lot, by the way), or how often I read the scriptures in Spanish (every night, in case you were wondering), or how many boxes I have packed (only two, and I haven't even made a small dent in my belongings), or whether or not my piano skills will be up to par by the time I leave (probably not, unfortunately), but I guess I'll just let the pictures do most of the talking.
I have been trying to get partying out of my system, so I am doing as much of it as I can until I leave. On Friday I party-hopped to three different parties and it was awesome! Today was pretty much a party as well.

I went to this farewell party the other day for my friend Jack (who is going on his mission to Indianapolis Spanish speaking) and cousin Jake was there!! Yeah!! Here he is with his girlfriend, Kelsey. Get a good look. You may be related to her someday.

This is my friend Jack (whose party it was). He leaves this Wednesday and so I'll see him when I get down there hopefully!

The day after the party, Jack went through the temple for the first time, and he invited me. So I went and it was a wonderful experience. Jack cried and cried. This is us outside the temple just afterward.

My friend Becky is going to Sweden the same day I'm going to Argentina. She and Jack went to high school together, so she was in the session as well.

I gave my farewell talk in the Emmett singles ward today and it went very well. My topic was "Be a missionary all your life" so I ran with that. I started out my talk by quoting the Standard of Truth, and Mom and Dad both cried within the first 2 minutes. There were tons of people there - the most that have ever been to the ward - mainly due to the fact that it was a triple farewell because we're all leaving the same day. It was so fun. Here are some pictures from that:

During the Sacrament, I looked up and there was Saylor Manwaring, front and center, with his head in his hands, with an enormous grin on his face. He's pretty funny. He, Camille Wight, and I went to high school together.

I met these girls in the Boise 9th Ward when I lived there this past year and they all came up to hear me speak. Pretty nice!

My buddy Kyle McAllister came too. He's not a member, but we had driver's ed together and he found me on facebook a while ago and asked if he could come. He also came with me to Jack's farewell afterward.

This is my old roommate Ashley Scholes. How's THAT for hard core, Ash?

Teresa Guzman is going to the Dominican Republic and we so we will be learning Spanish together. The bishop made the comment today that Becky will fit in when she gets to Stockholm, and Teresa will look natural in the Dominican Republic. I'm the only one who doesn't really fit the part...

Like I said, after my farewell, most of us left and went to Horseshoe Bend (where the Sweet Ward meets for the time being) to hear Jack speak. He first sang "No Ordinary Man" with his sister Jill (Jack and Jill - isn't that cute?) and then spoke. He did a good job and then we all took pictures outside, and afterward went to my house for cookies and ice cream. Derek and Dillon joined us too (mainly so they could get some treats, I think):

Dillon, Derek, and Dustin Hurst. Dustin's one of my really good friends and works for Joel as a tech. That's how he knows Derek and Dillon, and they lovingly refer to him as "D-bag" (AKA "Dustin bag" AKA "A bag full of Dustin".

Madi and me at the house. We're so cute.

Me and D-bag.

Derek was thouroughly impressed that all of my friends were gone within an hour. Usually they like to linger... The last one to leave was Kyle. He wanted to talk or something. Dad woke up from his nap and tried to make him leave (not very subtley, I might add), so I suggested that I walk him to his car. Madi said she's pretty certain he's in love with me. When we gave me a hug in Emmett, Madi said his face had a look of "longing." Weird. Thank goodness I'm leaving. Later Joel's family and Heather's family came over for a visit:

Luke and Emery are great friends. And they are so cute together.

After I took that last picture, Luke accidentaly elbowed Emery in the head. Emery walked away whining, so Luke went over and gave him a hug to console him.

Pretty cute kids and such. It was fun to see the family and hear about Heather and Austin's trip. Tomorrow I'm going to get some shots for my mission. Yipee horray! It's getting so close and I'm getting pretty nervous and excited. When you guys come for Thanksgiving, please be prepared to give me some advice and/or encouragement for my mission. Thanks. I love you guys! See you soon!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Pictures are worth a thousand words. Here's a novel:


Cassidy running from one end of the court to the other. She was really good!



Robby Bassett at Lance Hines's house. We were playing "Marry, Date or Dump?"


This is the treat that Alan Vickery made us and we all 7 consumed rapidly. It's cookies on the bottom, then a half gallon of ice cream, topped with a container of whipped cream, with chocolate sauce drizzled on top.


Shayla Elison is there to the left. She is starting to think about not taking another bite.


Emery and me at one of Cassidy's basketball games.


When Uncle Layne came to visit, Cassidy had a game, so he watched her play.



When Joel took Melanie out for her birthday, I got to watch their two cutest kids!

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Temple, Football, and boys


These are the flowers Ted gave me before we went to the Haunted World with my ward. The cup contains blueberries and raspberries, the leaves are peppermint, the flowers are pretty, and the ribbon is held in place with an Argentine coin. He put a lot of thought into this. He's so incredibly sweet!

Anyway, the rest of these photos aren't really in any particular order. They are all from this weekend.


Derek with his football balloon


Teresa Guzman, Becky Johnson's eye, and me at The Pie Hole (a sweet pizza place downtown)


Becky and me in front of the newly remodeled Boise temple


Derek looks like a real football player in this picture


Mom made a candy bouquet for Derek and we got him some balloons to give him on his "Senior Night"


The award says "Football Star." That's all you need to know.


Cassidy enjoyed the megaphone


The cellophane came from Derek's candy and Dad - of his own accord, mind you - put it over his head and walked around like that for 10 minutes


This is my lover Ted. He's really sweet, even if Mom and Dad hate that I have a boyfriend right before my mission.

Yes, I'm still going on a mission. Ted's really cool and sweet and such, and in addition to that, he's proud of me for going on a mission. He went to Argentina on his mission as well, so he's helping me learn Spanish. Just to review, he and I went to high school together but never hung out until just recently. He found me on facebook and we started talking when I found out he had returned from Argentina.

The pictures of the football game were in honor of Derek. It was senior night and so they got on the loudspeaker and told all about his plans for the future and we all cheered. We cheered even louder, though, when he recovered a fumble in the fourth quarter. It was AWESOME!

Becky Johnson, Teresa Guzman, and I are all in the same ward. We have all received our calls to foreign missions and are all entering the MTC on December 3. So they both went through the temple this past week, and so we decided that we should all go to the temple together. It was so fun and a wonderful experience. It was the second time for all of us, and the first time going through for someone else. We three sat in the Celestial Room after the session ended and discussed how we felt and expressed our desires to go to the temple together as missionaries in Provo. That'll be more likely for Teresa and me. She's going to the Dominican Republic so at least we'll both be in the same part of the MTC. Becky's going to Sweden. I'm also so grateful that I'll have so many friends in the MTC with me. I'm sure I'll be homesick during Christmas, but it'll be easier to take when I'm surrounded by friends. Anyway, I'm totally excited for my mission and am trying to get ready for it. Pray for me, please!

Whit

Sunday, September 14, 2008


After opening the call - with everyone still in their pajamas...



My mission is ENORMOUS! I'm pointing about where Santiago is. My mission goes the farthest south of anyone in the family so far.


This is where it is on e the map, which dad now has hanging up in his office.


Dad read some passages from his mission journal from a time he went to Mendoza.


Joel made a yummy breakfast following the opening. Then everyone went to football practice, air shows, youth activities, and I made a million phone calls and sent a text to all 300 people in my phone book.





As all of you know, I have been waiting for my call for a LONG TIME. It had gotten to the point where I told people that I was convinced that the letter had either gotten lost in the mail, or that the MTC just didn't want me and a rejection letter was on its way. But finally one day I was at Art in the Park with some friends and I got a call from my bishop. He said, "Whitney, do you want some good news or do you want some good news?" My bishop has been almost as eager to get my call as I have been - mainly because I bug him so much about it and wanted everything to progress as quickly as humanly possible. He told me that the status online had changed from "Call ready to be assigned" to "Call sent 9-5-08." So, naturally, I hoped it would come the next day. Little did I know I would be waiting another week.
Day after day I would walk up the mailbox, religiously at noon and wait for the mailman to deliver everything except my call at 12:25pm. Missionaries in Boise and the surrounding area typically get their calls on Thursdays, so when the call didn't come on Monday or Tuesday, we figured Thursday would be the day, and we made the necessary preparations and aligned our schedules so that all of the in-town family could attend. Sadly, Thursday came and Thursday went. Still nothing. My bishop called me that evening and was kind of offended that he hadn't been notified of my mission location. When I informed him that it had not yet arrived, he sympathized with me and assured me that he would call the missionary department if the call failed to come the following day.
Friday morning came and I, as usual, put on my running shoes and ran to the mailbox. Disappointment met me again when I opened the green door to the mailbox. I called Mom and Dad and expressed my feeling similar to Lethe on "The Mailbox," always waiting for something to come, yet it never does. I called my bishop as well, and he said he would return my phone call as soon as he found out the reason for the delay. No more than 10 minutes later, my cell phone rang with the familiar tune that let me know it was my bishop calling. He informed me that the date online was misleading. "The call was assigned that day," he said, "but it wasn't actually mailed until Tuesday." That made me a little angry. Why would the missionary department mess with our minds in such a way? How cruel. Then he continued, "But would you like to know when you're leaving?" I said "Yes" with such intensity I wasn't sure he had heard. When I heard him say "December 3" it made everything seem real. I had a departure date. I was actually going. The next question he asked caught me by complete surprise, however. "Would you like to know where you're going?" It seemed unfair to Mom and Dad for them to not be there when I found out, and I kind of wasn't sure I wanted to find out, there, in the bathroom, all sweaty from running, all alone. Yet without thinking, and before I could stop myself, the words escaped my mouth. "YES?!" It was almost a question. Did I really want to know? Does it even matter? How could he be so calm? I was bursting inside. "Well, I don't know. She wouldn't tell me that." Ouch. I felt my heart sink. I felt that was cruel, and I told him so. Not so much because he built my hopes up and then crushed them, but more so because for a moment a actually thought that the missionary department would just tell him right out, as if it were similar to me getting assigned a military post.
That day, of course, we began the speculations. Dad thought (and he admitted that it was evil to think this way) that possibly my departure date was so far off so that I might have time to get a passport. Or, on the other hand, maybe just Montgomery, Alabama didn't need me until the first of the year. Who knew? But at least this rested my fears and gave me the assurance that a call was on its way!
Friday morning Dad called the post office at 8am and asked them if a big white envelope had arrived for "Sister Whitney Flake." The lady said she would keep an eye out for it. At 8:23am, she called back with the news. "Mr. Flake, your letter for Whitney is here, and there's one for you too!" Dad ran upstairs to my bedroom and woke me up. "IT'S HERE! IT'S HERE!" he was shouting. He immediately awoke everyone in the house, which this particular morning included Heather and Austin, and he quickly drove to the Horseshoe Bend Post Office, a few miles down the hill. I got up and put on some clothes and some makeup. I was one of the only ones to do so, due to the hour of morning, but I knew pictures would be taken of me and I don't have eyes without the help of some eyeliner and mascara. Dad got back just as Joel, Derek, and Austin returned from their morning football game (to which no one showed, canceling the event). Melanie soon followed with the carload of children. We all sat down, got the siblings on the phones who were away from home, and, well, the movie tells the rest.
I tore open the large envelope, paying no mind to how it was ripped. The actual call was a few pages back, so I found it and, of course, my eyes went immediately to the location. I was so excited with I saw the words "Argentina." Nothing else mattered at that moment. The Lord had called me the South America. Dad's old stomping ground, no less. I started at the salutation, "Dear Sister Flake, You are hereby called to serve as a missionary of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. You are assigned to labor in the Argentina Mendoza Mission." The family went crazy. Screaming, clapping, cheering, congratulations, laughter. Solely sounds of joy and excitement were heard for the next few seconds. I continued reading. The letter was lengthy, but the family had requested I read it, so I complied. Immediately following my reading of the prophet's name, signifying the close of the letter, we opened the booklet also enclosed to see my boundaries. My mission covers three providences and borders Chile. Mendoza is literally directly across the Andes Mountains from Santiago. Dad was probably the most excited. Then Joel. They started spouting off all kinds of facts about South America and Argentina and Spanish-speaking missions. Joel was explaining how one-third of the South American missionaries in the Dennis Flake family have come from the Joel Flake family. Dad was telling me about his experiences in Mendoza, which were soon followed by his going and retrieving his mission journal. He read from it and expressed how cold it was and how the natives seemed inhuman. Pretty cool, Dad.
The hours following the opening were filled with many phone calls, much excitement, and included Joel and Dad making an elaborate breakfast for everyone. I scarfed some food down in between phone calls, and send a text to everyone I knew. Many of the people I called were still asleep, seeing as it was barely 9am and many of them are college students who value their Saturdays for sleeping purposes. But everyone was very excited. Some shocked, some not so shocked. But all elated.
I have done research since then, of course. I have already become a member of the mission website. I am going tomorrow to get my passport started, and to get a Spanish "Himnos." Mom says I'll need to brush up on my piano skills. Not many Argentinians can play apparently... Anyway, that's my story. Thanks for caring and thanks for all of the advice. I sat through my last temple prep class today and am planning on going through the temple as soon as possible. I just need to find a time to get my interviews. Much love to all. I'm sure I'll be talking to most of you a lot in the coming weeks. Be planning on my farewell to be just before Thanksgiving. Maybe everyone should plan on just coming for Thanksgiving and I'll work it out so at least ONE of my farewells is that weekend.